I was wondering when it comes to ditching, does it upset you more if the partner drops a craving you had, or they had? See I don't care if my own cravings get dropped. I just figure I'll try again, with someone else.
What I can't stand, is when someone comes to me, and makes me sound like their last hope, for some mega craving they've had, and then they leave me.
Them - "Oh hey, I saw you do Naruto, and I really love it, and I've been craving it for so long! I'd really love it if we could RP this, and be friends!" ( This is a fictional example. I've never had this specific message sent to me. )
Me - "Sure thing. I'll do Naruto, and I'm happy to be friends too."
So we get all set up...and then they just drop me. It irritates me, because it's like here I am all set up to do this super craving for them, even if it was an idea I did not really feel into, and they just quit. It's like I imagine them as the sort of person who runs out of food, has no money, begs someone else for spare change, and then goes; "You know what, I think I'm just going to starve."