◤ Female Emergency: Can Pre-Ejaculation make a female preg◥

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Umm... 

Well this was something that I would not have planned to be a new post that is not related to rps, but here it is. 

So, yesterday (which is Saturday), my boyfriend and I got a little heated. We were frotting (which is rubbing the lower regions together) and at first I was not thinking, but when I realized what was happening, I said stop because I remembered learning that Pre-cum (so what I have been told) can make a girl pregnant and I have no idea if he had pre cum coming out. He tried to assure me that it was not coming out, that he would have felt it, but I was still uncomfortable and we went back to cuddling. 

I told al my friends and all of them said that I have nothing to worry about (they're far from virgins lol) that getting pregnant by it is very low, but still, I'm very very very very afraid. My period is always out of whack and I am a week late. I dont know what to do, I'm very very very afraid right now. Can someone please help me? Can someone please tell me if I am at risk or not? 

I didnt want it to go that far but it just happened, and I cant express how afraid I am right now. I cant stop thinking about it, I'm in school and I have my life ahead of me and I cant do this I know I'm not ready. Please can someone help me 

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Have you made an apointment with a gynacologist (did I spell it right? I'm not a native speaker)?

[мae]

Mar 23, 2015 1:25:18 GMT ᴘᴏᴘꜱɪᴄʟᴇ 🍡 said:

Umm... 

Well this was something that I would not have planned to be a new post that is not related to rps, but here it is. 

So, yesterday (which is Saturday), my boyfriend and I got a little heated. We were frotting (which is rubbing the lower regions together) and at first I was not thinking, but when I realized what was happening, I said stop because I remembered learning that Pre-cum (so what I have been told) can make a girl pregnant and I have no idea if he had pre cum coming out. He tried to assure me that it was not coming out, that he would have felt it, but I was still uncomfortable and we went back to cuddling. 

I told al my friends and all of them said that I have nothing to worry about (they're far from virgins lol) that getting pregnant by it is very low, but still, I'm very very very very afraid. My period is always out of whack and I am a week late. I dont know what to do, I'm very very very afraid right now. Can someone please help me? Can someone please tell me if I am at risk or not? 

I didnt want it to go that far but it just happened, and I cant express how afraid I am right now. I cant stop thinking about it, I'm in school and I have my life ahead of me and I cant do this I know I'm not ready. Please can someone help me 

Hi, Raven!

I totally feel your pain! My period also comes at strange intervals, so that's normal. My advice to you is don't stress about it! Stress will totally make it stay away because it knows you want it and Mother Nature is a filthy woman.

As to answer your question, frotting won't get you pregnant unless he actually ejaculates inside of you. Aside from that, precum will only get you pregnant if he came once before and didn't use the restroom before going a second time. What happens is some semen remains inside of the urethra and, when it's not pushed out somehow (i.e: via urine), it remains inside and can escape via precum.

You're totally safe! Like I said, just don't stress too much! If your period still isn't there within a few days, you can try consulting a doctor. If you're generally concerned or sexually active, I would suggest birth control (unless your religion doesn't believe in it, in which case, I would try other methods of contraception!). 


Warm regards,
Mae.

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Thank you so much for replying~

I asked him about it. He said he masturbated Friday night, went to the bathroom to pee which I read that kills the left over perm, and peed the next morning as well. Does that hep at all in this situation?

I would take the pill but I took a sample of one already to help regulate my period and I suffered the side effects horribly by it, so I dont think my body can handle the birth control pill. Any other suggestions?

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Pre-cum is just lubricant, like how a female becomes wet. It's lubricant preparing for the ejaculation. You can only get pregnant from pre-cum if there was semen in it which is not very likely. It has happened before but not very often. Semen is only caught in pre-cum if it was left behind from a previous ejaculation. I would suggest maybe getting the morning after pill just to be safe but honestly I think you'll be fine.

I highly suggest getting on birth control, the pill, the shot or maybe even the insert. Or use a condom. there are also female condoms you may like to look into.

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Mar 23, 2015 1:52:43 GMT ᴘᴏᴘꜱɪᴄʟᴇ 🍡 said:

Thank you so much for replying~

I asked him about it. He said he masturbated Friday night, went to the bathroom to pee which I read that kills the left over perm, and peed the next morning as well. Does that hep at all in this situation?

I would take the pill but I took a sample of one already to help regulate my period and I suffered the side effects horribly by it, so I dont think my body can handle the birth control pill. Any other suggestions?

You could get the shot, you get it every three months and it even keeps you from having a period. So you won't have any pains with that. Or condoms always work. If your boyfriend is the type that doesn't like to use them then try the female condom.

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Regarding him, I know this may sound fake but honestly he is really considerate. He knows when a girl like me is scared, he stops completle and we do something else and that is what happened. What I realized what was happening, i said stop. He asked what was wrong, was I ok, did something hurt, should he wear a condom just in case, and all in all I said to stop because I realized what could happen.

With pills and shots, I'm afraid to react to them again because I took a pill once to regulate my period, but I suffered horrible side effects from it

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Mar 23, 2015 2:02:44 GMT ᴘᴏᴘꜱɪᴄʟᴇ 🍡 said:

Regarding him, I know this may sound fake but honestly he is really considerate. He knows when a girl like me is scared, he stops completle and we do something else and that is what happened. What I realized what was happening, i said stop. He asked what was wrong, was I ok, did something hurt, should he wear a condom just in case, and all in all I said to stop because I realized what could happen.

With pills and shots, I'm afraid to react to them again because I took a pill once to regulate my period, but I suffered horrible side effects from it

@lydia

What kind was it? I know what you mean about having horrible side effects, I did too. I just stopped mine because it made me throw up and I couldn't keep anything down. (I actually thought for the longest time it was gallbladder problems) But there are other brands that have different ingredients in them It might just be one small thing you're allergic to. Theres Apri, Caziant, Kariva,Velivet, Yaz, Yasmin, Zarah, Beyaz, Safyral, Kelnor, Zovia 1/35, Zovia 1/50, Previfem, TriNessa, and many, MANY more. There are so many I can't even name all of them.

I was on TriNessa, that's what made me sick. But don't give up on it just because there was a side effect. Just go to your doctor and he/she will try you on something different. With these things it really is a trial and error sort of thing. You'll defiantly feel like a lab rat, but once you find the right kind you'll be very grateful. You can have as much sex as you want, and it'll make your periods lighter and less painful. It also treats ovarian cysts (which I personally know are a bitch from experience).

Keep in mind the only form of birth control that is 100% effective is no sex at all. You can be on the pill, use a condom and take the morning after pill the day after and still get pregnant.

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I dont know what it was really. I was just told that it was a low estrogen pill to help lower my level and regulate my period. the side effects ugh i literally grew cysts on my face, my breasts swelled too much and were painful, and my skin was red. it was horrible. I dont intend on frotting or having sex at all lol.