ಠ_ಠ Female Emergency UPDATE: Please Help ಠ_ಠ

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Well it looks like my first few posts are going to be about this then. 

Better safe than sorry.

So, in case you are just tuning in, please go to my profile and find Female Emergency: Can Pre-Ejaculation make a female preg for the full story. If not and you want to put the pieces together, then go right ahead. Those who have read it already, here is an update of what has been happening. 

So I posted about this Sunday I believe, and here is what happened. At 3:am ish, I woke up feeling just a little nausea. my stomach was feeling sour and my throat was getting a little tight as if I was going to throw up. I didn't. I was feeling that crazy sick, just a little sour stomach. I laid down on my back and just closed my eyes, listen to the jellyfish song from Clear (DMMD) and Spring from Vivaldi, and within ten minutes or less I was ok, feeling just fine and fell asleep. Woke up a few hours later to get ready for the morning and I felt just fine. Nothing else was happening. The only thing I knew was that I was not hungry because Sunday's food consumption was a bowl of cereal...two pancakes, 3 bacon strips, held me off until dinner which was Portillos. I was pretty full. I felt my stomach being a little bit sour again, so I took mylanta medicine and now the sour feeling is gone. As I'm writing this, I'm getting a little bit hungry. 

I went to a local CVS by my school and the plan B pill was 50$...something that I can't afford. My friends saw me this morning and said that I was over reacting and I am totally fine, but you know, I'm still scared cause that was what a doctor said to me once when I took a medication and I ended up being in that one percent area.

So here is this update about this situation and I think I'm going to keep this up (It does calm me down a little bit).  Do you think that I am still in good shape that I am not at risk? Should I still try to get the Plan B? Am I over reacting and I'm really at no risk of being pregnant? 

Please help me out and Thank you so much for those who have read my last post last night and was helping me out. I'm still scared, so please help me. 

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I am so sorry to hear that your scared and upset, so I am going to try my best to help you! I am a 21 year old woman and I know a lot about this kind of stuff because I have lived it before. The chance of you getting pregnant by pre-cum is so small that I am not joking, your man would need a miracle semen in order for that to happen. I know because this situation has happened to me before and I went to the doctor and that's exactly what she told me. She is a doctor I can trust too because I have known her since I was a little girl. That and I am not pregnant. Now as for you feeling sick, more than likely it is nerves just making you feel nauseated. I get morning nausea a lot and I am not pregnant, it's just how my tummy is sometimes.

I do not take the pill,shots, or any of those things and I have been with my fiance for two years and have had sex and still no baby. Our method that we do is pretty much as good if not better than a condom but it takes a lot of self control on the man's part so it isn't recommended if the man has a hard time controlling or knowing his own body very well.

Now I have had the same issue as you when it comes to the pills, horrible side effects that make you sick and sore all over, just a horrible experience really. They do however have the morning after pill that you take after you think you may have conceived and it is supposed to prevent you from getting pregnant. How I do not know, but it apparently works for a lot of people and I believe it is over the counter, not sure though never taken it. You may wanna look into it though.

Hope I was able to help or make you feel better!

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americanpregnancy.org/getting-pregnant/can-you-get-pregnant-with-precum/

Heres a site that might help too, plus there are other ones as well. Google usually eases my mind, or can make it worse, but in this case it definately eases.

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Thank you so much for trying to help!

I of course dont know his body as well as does. He swears nothing came out there was no penetration, just that rubbing between the lips. I have never done anything that sexual before, so I was surprised when it just happened, and I must admit that I lost myself a little bit in it, but I snapped out and stopped it. A lot of my friends say that I should have nothing to worry about, but since I was that one percent from my first medication to help my period, i have just been afraid ever since.

Based on what I described here and my other post about this, do you honestly feel that I am at no risk?

Thank you so much again~

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I really feel like your not pregnant at all! Just rubbing, especially no penetration, is very very very very unlikely to get you pregnant. Because in order for you to be at a real risk he would have needed to be at lest half way inside. Oxygen in the air kills off sperm quickly, hence why sperm needs to be inside a woman in order to get anywhere.

If it helps any, I am a very fertile female. Meaning that of all people I should get pregnant easily. If two years of maybe having pre-cum and not knowing it happened to me hasn't caused me to get pregnant yet, and he penetrates, you should be more than fine hun.

[мae]

Mar 23, 2015 15:09:46 GMT ᴘᴏᴘꜱɪᴄʟᴇ 🍡 said:

Well it looks like my first few posts are going to be about this then. 

Better safe than sorry.

So, in case you are just tuning in, please go to my profile and find Female Emergency: Can Pre-Ejaculation make a female preg for the full story. If not and you want to put the pieces together, then go right ahead. Those who have read it already, here is an update of what has been happening. 

So I posted about this Sunday I believe, and here is what happened. At 3:am ish, I woke up feeling just a little nausea. my stomach was feeling sour and my throat was getting a little tight as if I was going to throw up. I didn't. I was feeling that crazy sick, just a little sour stomach. I laid down on my back and just closed my eyes, listen to the jellyfish song from Clear (DMMD) and Spring from Vivaldi, and within ten minutes or less I was ok, feeling just fine and fell asleep. Woke up a few hours later to get ready for the morning and I felt just fine. Nothing else was happening. The only thing I knew was that I was not hungry because Sunday's food consumption was a bowl of cereal...two pancakes, 3 bacon strips, held me off until dinner which was Portillos. I was pretty full. I felt my stomach being a little bit sour again, so I took mylanta medicine and now the sour feeling is gone. As I'm writing this, I'm getting a little bit hungry. 

I went to a local CVS by my school and the plan B pill was 50$...something that I can't afford. My friends saw me this morning and said that I was over reacting and I am totally fine, but you know, I'm still scared cause that was what a doctor said to me once when I took a medication and I ended up being in that one percent area.

So here is this update about this situation and I think I'm going to keep this up (It does calm me down a little bit).  Do you think that I am still in good shape that I am not at risk? Should I still try to get the Plan B? Am I over reacting and I'm really at no risk of being pregnant? 

Please help me out and Thank you so much for those who have read my last post last night and was helping me out. I'm still scared, so please help me. 

Hello again!

I think tehspockinater pretty much summed up everything I was going to say about the situation. They're right: nerves could totally be the cause of your nausea. I'm going to share with you a little bit of a personal story and it might just help you a little more?

When I was with my ex-boyfriend, we rarely used contraception, relying on the pullout method and the occasional condoms. We were together - and sexually active - for about five years. Because I had irregular periods all the time, pregnancy scares were at least once a month. At one point, I went without a period for two months and went through signs that some people experience in early pregnancy: sore breasts, difficulty sleeping on stomach, getting repulsed by certain foods and smells, etc.

It wound up being absolutely nothing, but nobody's body handles stress well. Being stressed can also be a huge part of the problem; the more you stress out, the more your period is going to stay away and make you sick with anxiousness.

Unless he'd already came once, you're at a very minimal (and I'm talking 0.0001% here) chance of being pregnant. While I wouldn't say you need to take it and spend the $50 on the Plan B pill, you can always do so if you really need the peace of mind. But before going and spending the money, I'd suggest checking out the website tehspockinater posted and you can always call your local physician. If you're too afraid to talk to them, there is always the Planned Parenthood hotline, which you can call! The number (for America) is [phone], and select Option #3. Or you can chat with a representative directly online.

I hope that helps, and if you ever need anything (Litmust related, roleplay related, personal problems, etc.), please don't hesitate to send me a message. I'm glad to help!


Warm regards and best of luck,
Mae.

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Mar 23, 2015 15:43:25 GMT @tehspockinater said:

I really feel like your not pregnant at all! Just rubbing, especially no penetration, is very very very very unlikely to get you pregnant. Because in order for you to be at a real risk he would have needed to be at lest half way inside. Oxygen in the air kills off sperm quickly, hence why sperm needs to be inside a woman in order to get anywhere.

If it helps any, I am a very fertile female. Meaning that of all people I should get pregnant easily. If two years of maybe having pre-cum and not knowing it happened to me hasn't caused me to get pregnant yet, and he penetrates, you should be more than fine hun.

Haha~ Yes he didnt go in at all. he poked just a little by accident, just a litlte where my hymen ripped very slightly cuz there was a litlte bit of blood when i went to clean up. So even with this, it should not have happened right?

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You should be good! If he didn't even go in, the sperm that was in the pre-cum(If there was any) most likely died even before reaching the inside.

[lokasenna]

you can't know if you are pregnant in one day, it takes 3 weeks to 1 month for you to know if you are pregnant and get symptoms and you can't know in just few hours or a day, sometimes it takes 6 days for an egg to travel to uterus and to "nest", it takes 72 hours for sperm to die once it enters your body, it need to enter at full speed when it is ejaculated so it has to be inside not by rubbing outside or things like that, sperm can't enter the body from the outside. After 72 hours if you are not ovulating or not releasing eggs sperm will die, but from what you wrote he didn't cum and sperm was not involved. And sperm needs to be ejaculated inside of you for it to swim, if the sperm wasn't released inside it won't swim anywhere it will just die out from lack of liquid. You also wrote that he poked and your hymen ripped? From a little poke that can't happen, it has to be a trust for hymen to rip. I went to medical school so i know this things and hymen isn't weak peace of skin that a small poke can rip and if you had sex before and your hymen was ripped it wouldn't bleed again, and the blood on your underwear could easily be from period, sometimes the small bleeding, brown like mucus and pinkish water can appear before period, day or even weeks, and it can appear only one day or it can happen few days in a row

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Mar 24, 2015 14:21:03 GMT lokasenna said:

you can't know if you are pregnant in one day, it takes 3 weeks to 1 month for you to know if you are pregnant and get symptoms and you can't know in just few hours or a day, sometimes it takes 6 days for an egg to travel to uterus and to "nest", it takes 72 hours for sperm to die once it enters your body, it need to enter at full speed when it is ejaculated so it has to be inside not by rubbing outside or things like that, sperm can't enter the body from the outside. After 72 hours if you are not ovulating or not releasing eggs sperm will die, but from what you wrote he didn't cum and sperm was not involved. And sperm needs to be ejaculated inside of you for it to swim, if the sperm wasn't released inside it won't swim anywhere it will just die out from lack of liquid. You also wrote that he poked and your hymen ripped? From a little poke that can't happen, it has to be a trust for hymen to rip. I went to medical school so i know this things and hymen isn't weak peace of skin that a small poke can rip and if you had sex before and your hymen was ripped it wouldn't bleed again, and the blood on your underwear could easily be from period, sometimes the small bleeding, brown like mucus and pinkish water can appear before period, day or even weeks, and it can appear only one day or it can happen few days in a row

no i didnt have sex before. he didnt push all in, i just know that when i checked a very small part was ripped with little blood. 

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Mar 24, 2015 12:59:18 GMT @tehspockinater said:

You should be good! If he didn't even go in, the sperm that was in the pre-cum(If there was any) most likely died even before reaching the inside.

That you so much for trying to help me I'm starting to wake up more with ease c:

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Mar 24, 2015 14:56:34 GMT ᴘᴏᴘꜱɪᴄʟᴇ 🍡 said:

Mar 24, 2015 12:59:18 GMT @tehspockinater said:

You should be good! If he didn't even go in, the sperm that was in the pre-cum(If there was any) most likely died even before reaching the inside.

That you so much for trying to help me I'm starting to wake up more with ease c:

Glad I could help! This kind of thing worries all women at some point, even me a few times!