Dealing with exploding partners?

[Stilllazy]

I'm a person. A person who has feelings. And my feelings are being hurt.

This is not a super common occurrence but it is happening enough that it's starting to really bother me.

I have for the past little while then getting partners Who start off really nice, and then out of nowhere chew me out several new assholes about pretty much everything they've been hateing about me.

After more than 500 messages this girl who I really liked just freaking blasted me. She was just going off on me, over stuff that honestly I don't get why she didn't speak up sooner.

I'm honestly getting really perturbed about it.

Is there a good way to deal with these emotional exploders?

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I know this is really, really, really late, but I'll help you out if I can.

Sometimes people have things going on in their lives and take it out on people they don't know because it seems easier to do that I guess. It especially happens to people that the partner thinks are weak. Maybe they've exploded on you before and you just sat there and took it, therefor they do it again because they think they'll get away with it.

At least that's what happened to me. This partner I had was on drugs and took shit out on me. I don't know if you know this but addicts get reeeeeally cranky if they haven't had their fix. Of course, because I loved our roleplay so much, I sat there and took everything she said to me and even apologized to her for her chewing me out.

If you've had a bad day I'll sit and talk to you about it, but don't take it out on me if your boyfriend cheated on you and use my grammar mistakes or breaking your love interest's character by mistake as a reason to go off on me.

I've sense grown and have decided not to take shit from people. If you're in a bad mood I'll be happy to talk to you and try to bring you out of it, but if you go off on me for trying to help you or use a mistake I made as an excuse to chew me out I'm going to drop that person in a heart beat. I won't reply to that message and stay silent for a few days. Either the person will come back and apologize or they won't and that's fine. If they decide not to apologize then they're not worth your time.

Understand where I'm going with this?

Basically don't take shit from people. If they start chewing you out or taking shit out on you just delete the message and ignore it. Don't engage because there is a big chance they want you to and are looking for a fight.

There is no need to sit and take abuse from partners. If you're desperate for the roleplay the two of you are doing it's not hard to find another partner for the same subject.

I hope everything works out for you and you find peace with your partners.